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October 6, 2020 at 11:08 am
This podcast reminds us that there is no set “number” of how many times you and your partner should engage in sexual activities, but rather what works best for you. Everything is often hyper sexualized and we become socialized to believe that if you have sex once a week something is wrong in your relationship, but if you and your partner are happy with that number you shouldn’t feel ashamed. However, if you have mismatched sex drives what helps is communication and compromise. A good tip of advice I learned is to talk about your sexual encounters in a place that is nonsexual so you are not creating a sense of false pressure for your partner and make sure to hear the other person!