I Wore a Vibrator Necklace Out, and It Led to the Most Amazing Conversations.

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It’s truly quite interesting to experience what happens when you wear out the Vesper Crave, a geniusly disguised necklace as sexy in style as it is in function. 

Why? Because it’s not just a necklace; it’s also a vibrator. 

The experience of wearing the Vesper Crave goes a little bit like this: 

First, you get lots of compliments on your necklace. 

You might even be asked what it is… 

A whistle? A pipe? Maybe a laser pointer? Or even a vial for cocaine LOL. 

Then, you are left with a fascinating choice and an incredible opportunity. 

You have the choice to tell people what it is, or to keep the secret to yourself. 

There are obviously some circumstances in which the latter is the most appropriate option, but I would challenge you to test yourself and see how often you are willing the do the former. Because I guarantee you that it will lead to amazing conversations.  

I first wore it to a party where I hardly knew anyone (and many of them hardly knew each other), and people started coming up to me left and right, begging me to tell them about it. 

People: “Oh my god, is it really… is it… ??” 

Me: “A vibrator? Yesss.” 

Soon after, I found myself in a circle of girls who were each sharing intimate stories, problems, and insights and advice from their relationships and life experience. One of them had gone to a Cocktail and Charla with BBXX a few weeks earlier and told us how it had helped her to overcome a sexual obstacle that her and her partner had been facing. Another girl talked about how sex with her current partner was completely the opposite of that with her previous partner, but that she didn’t necessarily prefer one to the other; they weren’t comparable, they were just so different. After she finished sharing her story, she turned to me and she said, “You know, I never would have shared that story with any of you if it hadn’t been for your necklace that immediately broke down all the barriers.” 

The following week I wore it to a party at Startup Chile, for the inauguration of their new headquarters, and now the largest cowork in the country. This time I ended up talking to guys the entire night, some of whom took a turn wearing it themselves, and the questions and it was no different in that the curiosities and inquiries were nonstop the entire evening. Each one of them wanted show their friend and to have me tell them about it. There’s something about having the confidence to wear it that absolutely astounds and fascinates people. 

There are people who are afraid of it and people who are obsessed with it and people who are both. But all of them are curious; all of them want to know more. And everyone admires the person who not only has the confidence to wear it but also the security to tell people what it actually is and the desire to open up a new world of conversation and intimacy among old friends and new. I’m here to tell you that even if you don’t know it yet, you have the power and confidence within you to be that person. 

One of the girls who bought the necklace told me, “I have a first date this Saturday and I really want to wear it.” I told her, “Do it. You’re gonna nail the date- metaphorically and literally.” 

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