How to turn down sex

There are plenty of perfectly normal reasons for not wanting to have sex when your partner initiates: you’re exhausted, you’re distracted, you have other things you need to do, you’re just not in the mood.

Unfortunately, most of us aren’t very skillful at turning our partners down.

Even in the best of circumstances, getting turned down for sex stings. In a long-term relationship, getting turned down repeatedly can eventually lead to resentment. In some relationships, the resentment can grow to the point where it starts to destroy the relationship.

The stakes are high, so it’s important for us to get it right.

In our article for today we’re sharing the best tips for turning down your partner for sex- in a way that can actually help bring you closer together rather than tear you apart- brought to you by Vanessa Marin.