Prioritizing Your Intimacy
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INTRODUCTIONWelcome to Prioritizing Your Intimacy!1 Topic
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The science behind prioritizing your intimacyWhat do we mean by intimacy?
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The science behind prioritizing your intimacy1 Topic
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Love languagesLove languages1 Topic
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AffectionCatch your partner doing something right1 Topic
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Catch your partner doing something rightAffection
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Love MapsThe importance of showing affection1 Topic
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Appreciation, recognition, and empathyThe principle of building Love Maps1 Topic
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Appreciation
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Recognition
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Empathy
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The Four HorsemenHomework
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ListeningThe Four Horsemen1 Topic
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Don't try and cheer your partner upListen and learn
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Transforming criticism into wishesDon't always try and cheer your partner up1 Topic
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Process an argumentTransforming criticism into wishes1 Topic
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Is Not Rocket ScienceProcessing is a process1 Topic
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The 6-second kiss & the 20-second hugYour sexual relationship "is not rocket science"1 Topic
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Talking about sexThe 6 second kiss & the 20 second hug1 Topic
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How many times a weekHow to learn and grow & what turns you on1 Topic
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How to reject your partnerIs there a magic number?
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The art of compromiseHow to turn down sex1 Topic
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Self care isn't selfishWhat is a compromise?1 Topic
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Mutual masturbationSelf care isn't selfish1 Topic
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SmartphonesMutual Masturbation = Hot AF
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Happiness is loveSmartphone sabotage1 Topic
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Happiness = Love
Quizzes
1. You and your partner should each make a list of 5 of your favorite times the two of you have had sex.
2. Compare and share in detail why you loved each time in particular.
This activity will help get the conversation started about sex, in a very fun and carefree way. It will open the air for more communication about the theme, and hopefully leave each of you feeling slightly more comfortable, if not excited, as a result. Feel free to elaborate on the activity as much as you wish. The idea is to be sure to share the explanation behind each time on the list, because that is where people will indirectly communication clues to what turns them on, what they might want to repeat, and what they find to be the most fun. Chances are if it’s on their top five, they’re bound to be happy to repeat certain patterns that might show up on the list. It’s also a great way to compare where your differences might lie, and once you know them you can better work to trade off and balance them so each partner is happy to give and receive healthily and happily 🙂
REMINDER:
Friendship is key to a relationship, both inside and outside the bedroom. If you remember prioritize your friendship- to cultivate it, strengthen it, and put it first- it will help everything else grow and thrive in the relationship as a result.
Yes, including sex 😉