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Prioritizing Your Intimacy

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    Welcome to Prioritizing Your Intimacy!
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  2. The science behind prioritizing your intimacy
    What do we mean by intimacy?
  3. The science behind prioritizing your intimacy
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  4. Love languages
    Love languages
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  5. Affection
    Catch your partner doing something right
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  6. Catch your partner doing something right
  7. Love Maps
    The importance of showing affection
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  8. Appreciation, recognition, and empathy
    The principle of building Love Maps
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  9. Appreciation
  10. Recognition
  11. Empathy
  12. The Four Horsemen
  13. Listening
    The Four Horsemen
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  14. Don't try and cheer your partner up
    Listen and learn
  15. Transforming criticism into wishes
    Don't always try and cheer your partner up
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  16. Process an argument
    Transforming criticism into wishes
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  17. Is Not Rocket Science
    Processing is a process
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  18. The 6-second kiss & the 20-second hug
    Your sexual relationship "is not rocket science"
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  19. Talking about sex
    The 6 second kiss & the 20 second hug
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  20. How many times a week
    How to learn and grow & what turns you on
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  21. How to reject your partner
    Is there a magic number?
  22. The art of compromise
    How to turn down sex
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  23. Self care isn't selfish
    What is a compromise?
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  24. Mutual masturbation
    Self care isn't selfish
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  25. Smartphones
    Mutual Masturbation = Hot AF
  26. Happiness is love
    Smartphone sabotage
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  27. Happiness = Love
Lesson 20, Topic 1
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BBXX November 17, 2020
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1. You and your partner should each make a list of 5 of your favorite times the two of you have had sex.

2. Compare and share in detail why you loved each time in particular.

This activity will help get the conversation started about sex, in a very fun and carefree way. It will open the air for more communication about the theme, and hopefully leave each of you feeling slightly more comfortable, if not excited, as a result. Feel free to elaborate on the activity as much as you wish. The idea is to be sure to share the explanation behind each time on the list, because that is where people will indirectly communication clues to what turns them on, what they might want to repeat, and what they find to be the most fun. Chances are if it’s on their top five, they’re bound to be happy to repeat certain patterns that might show up on the list. It’s also a great way to compare where your differences might lie, and once you know them you can better work to trade off and balance them so each partner is happy to give and receive healthily and happily 🙂

Friendship is key to a relationship, both inside and outside the bedroom. If you remember prioritize your friendship- to cultivate it, strengthen it, and put it first- it will help everything else grow and thrive in the relationship as a result.
Yes, including sex 😉